I first had fried okra at Memaw's house along with fried green tomatoes. However, I do not remember her growing okra so I don't know where she got the okra. (Likely from a neighbor who had a bumper crop!) Recently Laura visited with her fella. They seemed to like it so I said I would post the recipe.
While the okra sets in egg, mix up the coating. Equal parts of white cornmeal with all-purpose flour, salt and pepper, and whatever else you might want. (Garlic powder, HotShot, cayenne, etc.)
The egg will "soak" into the okra quite a bit and the okra will be very sticky. Remove the okra from the egg and toss in the coating ensuring it is covered.
Don't worry if you get a bit of clumping. Once coated, place in hot oil. (I like avocado oil because it has a very high smoke point.)
Gently stir often until the okra is fully cooked and browned to your liking on all sides.
When done, drain well on paper towel or in metal basket. Season with salt/pepper to taste. I really like okra. I have several okra recipes that I like to make, but this one seems universally enjoyed even by people who "don't like okra." My other recipes do not have family ties though but I may post them anyway!
I will sometimes fry green beans using the same method! Tasty!